The Sanctity of Marriage
There is so much controversy concerning homosexuality and marriage.
This controversy has recently risen and been debated in court in
Massachusetts. Around three percent of our country experiences exclusive
homosexuality (Swan n.p.). Gay marriage must be banned because it has
negative consequences for our society, does not follow American Tradition,
and most importantly, homosexuality is immoral.
Granted homosexuality allows people to express themselves
individually, they often become public charges. Homosexuality has many
consequences for society. Besides pushing immorality, the gay lifestyle
also renders many health problems. Such health problems are Human
Papillomavirus (HPV), Hepatitis A, B, and C, and AIDS (Sprigg 8). Various
research studies have found that homosexuality causes alcohol abuse, drug
abuse, nicotine dependence, depression, and suicide (Sprigg 9). Children
with gay parents also suffer a higher risk of premarital childbearing,
illicit drug use, arrest, behavioral problems, poverty, and school failure
(Sprigg 7). Twenty years ago, homosexuality was perceived as wrong and as
an embarrassment. Now, it almost seems to be popular. Homosexuality is
proven to be wrong, but society is becoming immune to it. Our nation’s
laws should not be based on wrong doing. Society depends on cross gender
marriages for survival (Grolier 66). “Marriage is… fundamental to our
very existence and survival; the very existence and survival of our society
does not depend upon same-sex unions (Grolier 66).”
Supporters argue that gay marriage is a person’s right as an American,
but the very traditions of our country have never included homosexuality.
Marriage has always been held up in court as a heterosexual union (Grolier
68). Why should we alter our country’s traditions? In Poe vs. Ullman,
Justice Harlin linked sexual activity to marriage to the prohibition of
homosexual activity, and concluded that both confinement of sexual activity
to marriage and restriction
of homosexual behavior were so deeply embedded in the values of the nation
that they were both integral to “any Constitutional doctrine in this area
(Grolier 67).” In 1996, Congress created the Defense of Marriage Act
against federal protection for homosexuals (Grolier 66). The United States
of America has never recognized or approved of homosexuality and will not
There is a theory that people are born with a homosexual gene, but
that is no excuse. Homosexuality is very immoral. In Leviticus 18:22, God
says, “Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable
(Holy 131).” If this is against God’s law, then why shouldn’t it be
against American law? Our country was founded on Christianity. Marriage
is defined as a heterosexual life-time commitment relationship and a cross-
gender union (Grolier 67).
Gay marriage advocates argue that same-sex marriage should be
legalized because homosexuality is a person’s right, and that the banning
of that marriage is discrimination. It is not debatable that homosexuality
is immoral. It is also proven to have negative effects on society, and has
never been included in America’s history or tradition (Grolier 66). It is
incomprehensible why gay marriage should be legalized. If laws are made
that approve gay marriage, then what is America coming to? What is next?
People may try to marry family members, groups of people, maybe even
animals. What would the difference be between that and homosexuality?
There is proven evidence that gay marriages would send our country on a
never ending downward spiral.